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To shave or not: The big question before delivery

I have had many friends asking me this question, which I have never thought would even be a concern in their mind with so many other more pressing baby issues. Most of them felt embarrassed to be 'hairy' down there and would go for a shave or even a Brazilian wax before delivery, or even before a gynaecologist meeting.



Bye Bye Wisdom!

I wonder how long evolution will need so humans can finally have no bothersome wisdom teeth. Wisdom teeth were necessary during our ancestor's day due to the food being coarse and needed more crunching. Nowadays, there is no such need for it but we would have to remove wisdom teeth because they will cause pain!


The perks of being attractive

I am not talking about myself, I am not so thick skinned.

My good friend looks like a regular girl next door with a friendly face and radiant smile. We went to a cafe to catch up once and apparently, she captured the attention of the manager of the cafe.

Invisalign Part 3: The full experience

I am so happy I got through the past year without any hiccups.

A noteworthy event is that I got my straight teeth with Invisalign. A lot of my friends were envious of how fast my teeth straightened and how painless it was. There were some exception as listed here, but mostly I ate with my aligners without much hassle.


A proven way to solve side stitch

Not from laughing too much but from running.
Running to or away? (Source: wikipedia)

High heels

Being tall has always been a yardstick for beauty.
Some really cost more than $2000! (Source: wikipedia) 
That is why, no matter how tall or short you are, women are expected to show off their heels. These heels actually give women better posture, better proportionality (完美身段), and also instil greater confidence! All in all, it's a wonderful thing to put on the stiletto! I have friends who swear by the effectiveness of heels. They say that those extra inches makes you more feminine.. so die die must wear! Mulling it over, it should be more true for vertically challenged people, or girls with lack of confidence. Or should I say, girls who bother to put in effort to improve their looks. After all, these little effort may be cumulative.. Think about push up bra, hair styling, accessories and even make up..
I really don't like being so tall, probably because I am already above average height. My point is, why torture your own legs? There are so many risks for putting on the sexy footwear (sprain, ankle pain, soles discomfort...) but sometimes I think women really like to push their pain threshold.. Brazilian wax, diet plans, eyebrow shaving, plastic surgery... All in all, women, or rather human, will endure a lot for their physical beauty.

For me, I think that comfort plays a HUGE part too.Wearing 3 inches of heels will accentuate your figure significantly, but are your limbs screaming at you? Is your mobility affected? Are you able to walk/stand for longer period of time? Besides physical beauty, I think we should also look at our physical health. I have seen some people dragging their feet or walking awkwardly because their legs are in pain. That's definitely not pretty at all. 

Overall,  I am young, I love walking around, I prefer to walk around fast and jump when I want to and even chase the bus! But I also love my stiletto when I want to look and feel pretty and professional. So what's the solution? Pack a pair of light flats that should be handy when you go shopping and walking around!

You can look good with flats too!
Sometimes I wonder if all this pain is worthwhile. Are you looking pretty for yourself or others?

Invisalign Part 2: The disadvantages

After the initial one day pain of feeling like your whole mouth is swollen and is the focus of your attention, your mouth will still feel a bit of the tightness after every change of the aligners which occur every 2 weeks. Everything went quite smoothly other than that, and I don't really feel its presence most times.

I ate with it because it was so cumbersome to take out and put on each time. Plus, I don't find any difference eating with the aligners even though my dentist said she felt that she can't taste the food properly with the aligners. When I take it out, some of my teeth are not aligned properly anymore and my bite feels weird. So, whatever method that you prefer is fine. If you eat with the aligners like me, be sure to check your reflection of your teeth in the mirror after each meal.

Cereal, black pepper food and spices: They are always stuck in the aligners. Take note of dark coloured food as they are quite unsightly. I forgot to check occasionally too =(

Yellowing issues! (Source: ayako at flickr)
Curry: Beware! Roti prata, curry chicken, vegetable, fish, curry sauce on your rice... The curry will stain the aligners yellow. You must definitely clean it right after eating or you will live with the yellow aligners until the next biweekly change. Green curry doesn't make it that bad though.

I forgot about it once and came to regret it. Tried soaking it in vinegar, baking soda, mouthwash, toothpaste water, salt water and the stains doesn't come off. The only thing that works is repeated brushing of it with toothpaste but the colour doesn't come off immediately, it gradually fades away and becomes less yellowish.

Eating hard things like nuts, cereal, apples and other food might make you uncomfortable in the beginning as your teeth are slightly shaky.

My Favourite apples but can't bite on it! (Source: Wikipedia)
Apple: I can't eat it as a whole but have to cut it into smaller pieces because the aligners are not sharp enough to bite.

Nuts: They are so hard that they wear off the aligners at the back but I just clip off the edges with a nail clipper and continue eating.

These are just some of the food that I have encountered but it's fine other than that.

The worst part of invisalign is not about the food getting stuck. It is that I have a misconception that the aligners will look invisible throughout. After the first month, the dentist installed some attachments on the teeth so as to control the movement of each teeth.

The new aligners will take into account all the attachments and together with the aligners, they are ultra visible. It is no longer invis-align now. I really thought people will not be able to see it but I guess I had too high expectations of it. My friends said that they will not notice it if they are not within an arm's length of me so I guess that is some consolation. Please take all these into consideration before you go ahead with this and do read Part 1 to compare it with braces.

I have no regrets because it is still less visible compared to bracers and no pain anymore! 

Bracers vs Invisalign

I know I am too old for this.


I cannot believe that I am straightening my teeth at 28 years old. I am not a teenager anymore which is why I start to look for alternative rather than braces. For a sales person, I need to meet new people everyday, I don't wanna be inhibited by braces. I don't like that my mouth shape will be distorted by the additional braces, very vain indeed. I don't want to extract 4 teeth, it is too painful and recover too slowly.  Introducing the newest technology Invisalign, that solves all these and is very suitable for young adults like me.
(Source: alliancedentistrync.com)





Braces InvisAlign
Takes 1.5 to 2 years Takes 1 year
4 teeth must be extracted No extraction of teeth
Braces are shown visibly Invisible retainers
Every month visit to dentist Initially every month then less frequent
Damn painful Slight discomfort initially
$2000 - 4000  $7,500 ($6000 to 8000)

One of the reason why InvisAlign is more for young adults is because of the price tag. The other reason is because only young adults will need the advantage which is the invisible retainers. Mind you, my teeth are really crooked with 2 vampire tooth hence the higher price. For those with better teeth conditions, it should be cheaper. The clinics in the central area will also command a higher price. I have checked with Dental on the bay at Vivocity and they quoted me $10,000 before :( To save money, you should definitely head to neighbourhood areas and you can check the clinics offering invisalign here.

What to expect
First, get your teeth checked and x-rayed and they will also explain the payment terms to you. I paid around $150 for my first consultation and x-ray, and this amount is not included into the $7500 package.

Stage 1: Verbal confirmation that you will go ahead with invisalign/bracers. Explanation of the whole procedure and how this works.

Stage 2: Once you have decided to move forward with invisalign, they will do a 'foam test' to get your teeth mold. It is a soft thing that will set in 3 minutes so you will need to clamp your mouth in 3 minutes for both upper and lower side. Just breathe, relax and the mold will be done.

Stage 3: They will then give you a run through of how your teeth will align over time, with a simulation and a take home video. With your final approval, they will order the retainers from USA, which will arrive in 2 months.

Payment
At each stages stated above, I paid $1000 after every session which occur once a month. Subsequently, I paid the remaining amount at $350 every month when I go to collect the new set of aligners. Overall, it's $1000 x 3 stages + Remaining $300 before start of program + ($350 x 12 months)  = $7500.

My first day putting it on
I was pretty afraid that it's going to hurt terribly. I put it on at night before I sleep on a Friday to prepare myself of the pain for the very first day. Heard that it will be the most painful so I made sure that I will be staying home on the Saturday. I did not have a good sleep to be honest, I kept dreaming that all my teeth turned wobbly and came off or felt conscious of something in my mouth. When I woke up, no pain at all. Woohoo! I thought I pulled through.
Pretty-Woman-Roberts_l | by 22860
Can I have teeth like Julia Roberts please? (Source: 22860 at flickr)
I took it out to brush and ate my breakfast. Then I put it on again. Then the pain kicks in with 'turbo' mode. Actually it was just on a single teeth on my left side and the pain was just like a sore ulcer. I chewed on a 'chewy' that they provided to chew to lessen the pain and after 15 minutes, the pain was gone. After lunch, I took it out to clean it and the pain monster came back. Chewed it again and back to normal. I guess I should not keep taking it out as it brings out the pain. The dentist already mentioned that the first few days would be pretty uncomfortable and tight but will definitely become easier as the time goes by.

And then my speech was slightly affected. It's like my tongue does not dare to go near the retainers and feel it strange so when I speak, it's like I have a shorter tongue. Luckily, I have the weekend to get used to this or else, how am I going to do sales like that?

The pain is all gone after the third day. The pain is like the tightness in your teeth and how your muscles ache after strenuous exercises. Slowly it eases away over time and I can speak normally after only 3 days! Do check out my next post on the disadvantages of invisalign before you decide.

Disclaimer
How I wish I have a sponsor but I paid $7500 on my own. 

Spending $300 or more on grooming

Should I  spend $300 on a better hairstyle?

My hair has always been long and slightly wavy. I did perms for my prom and rebonding when I started work. On and off, dyeing my hair is quite common as Liese shampoo dye is cheap and fuss free.
Now it has become slightly more unruly and dull.
Nice wavy hair to signify feminity (Source: Brent Gambrell from flickr)
Hair is an important part of one's appearance, it can signify professional, chic, tomboy, ahpek, Korean style, obasan types, regardless of your features. I travel occasionally and meet people all the time, keeping it easy to maintain and neat is compulsory. But spending $300 to perm plus dye is not. I am reluctant to spend it even though the hairstyle can last around 2 years. 

Straight hair for a sweet girl (Source: Lies thru a lens from flickr)
I can do a lot with $300, like buying 6 pairs of shoes, 10 online dresses, grocery shopping for the whole month or pay for fuel. I know most girls will not flinch to spend these kinds of money for their beauty but I am not comfortable spending unnecessarily.

After all, my hair is still presentable. It is just not well groomed. I read about some people who will really spend $3000 every month on grooming, but they may earn 10 times more than that.

The solution is delayed gratification. I have been delaying this discussion with myself for a year now, wanting to wait till I earn more this year than my last year's portfolio. Right now, it's looking good but when I think of compounding interests, I hesitate to spend again. I have said that investing in oneself is necessary but how much is enough and how much is too much?

Or maybe something special? (Source: Wikipedia)
My other solution is to do my hair in Vietnam where everything is cheap and I can hopefully save some money. Even my hair cut I don't mind going for the ubiquitous $3.80 shop because it makes no difference when I trim it. My friends go for $38 haircuts but most of the time, I don't even know that they have cut their hair. They claimed that cheap stuff is not quality but quality should be noticeable yet it is not significant in most cases. 

So there you go... Such trivial girl issues. How much do you spend on your hair treatment then?

Are looks important to succeed?

I read an article recently confirming that pretty people make 12% more money. They did this study on real estate brokers and it definitely applies to any career that deals significantly with face-to-face interaction, especially politicians.

Looks are part of the package, a good example is Arnold Schwarzenegger (Source: Gage Skidmore at flickr)
Attractive people creates a pleasant feeling and humans are visual creatures, making us feel positive while we look at pretty things. The halo effect is when we associate good looks with their capability, which may be why some blessed people got through job interviews easier than the rest. It kind of also explains why some models and celebrities are also property agents.

With good looks, you may be more confident to voice your opinions and people will tend to hear you out.

With good looks, people will look at you longer when you speak, giving you more attention.

With good looks, others will tend to help you out if you need a favour.

With good looks, social media will be more useful and you can gather more 'likes'.

No wonder plastic surgery and Photoshop skills are so popular.

For me, I am not a stunning beauty. However, my industry is male dominated so average looking woman like me is able to score some brownie points. Looks is entirely subjective of course, I believe in grooming though. Everyone, not just women, needs to invest in themselves, maintain a pleasant facade and optimize their potential. Remember, there are no ugly people only lazy people : 没有丑人,只有懒人.Styling your hair to not look messy, putting on braces to give a better smile, using contact lenses to avoid looking dorky, wearing nice clothes to look presentable.. these are little things that improves our appearances and could make us more confident. Moreover, it is a form of respect to others. 没有先天的条件, 就要有后天的努力.

Yeah, even dogs too! (Source: Wikipedia)
It does not matter if we are not born pretty, we just have to work harder, invest a little more on grooming and everyone will still be marketable. Even if one is born with attractive features, he or she still needs to work on themselves to bring out the best in them. Ugly or pretty, your proactive attitude towards life will determine who will go one step ahead and retire first. Good looking people has the upper hand on first impression but ultimately. the brain department comes into play in the long haul.

Brawn vs brain, which would you choose?

How to lose weight vs how to save money

I find that people always like to say that they can't ever lose weight. They eat less also gain weight, eat more of course will gain weight. I think there is a concept that everyone has to understand, that is:

Calories in - Calories out = Calories stored

You can eat lesser and lesser (like 2 salads 1 fruit), lower than what your body needs in a day which is around 2300 kCal. Initially you will see some weight loss definitely. After a while, your body recognizes that you do not need so high metabolic rate and will start to work less and . When you eat more than 2 salads and 1 fruit (not so drastic but you get the point), you will be eating more than what your metabolic rate can handle.. and that is when you gain weight.
Starting from the tummy! (Source: Wikipedia)
Life is so unfair for you to eat so little of the good food and yet gain weight.

What I propose is to EXERCISE! Calories out > Calories in = Lose weight

Of course, saying is easier than doing it. Everyone knows but being so lazy in nature, they rather take diet pills, drink those nutrition package and go for surgery then try out exercise, which will help you to lose weight, be happier, fight off menstrual cramps, look fabulous, gives you a sharper mind.... I can go on and on but you already know and those that don't care, will probably keep tuning off these reasons.

This is my theory and I found this article and also several others to support it.
Not for you!
To be honest, I am just greedy for sumptuous food and am unable to go on diet. I tried to eat lesser previously but I feel dreadful and hungry and grumpy and just want to be a bitch (Not PMS hor!) Exercise gives you the rush of adrenaline, the post exercise feeling of contentment, the satisfied feeling that you have worked out and head into shower... shiok!

Actually, this is a good correlation to savings (don't you feel cheated by the title haha):

Money in - Money out = Money saved

To get higher savings, you need to either increase your salary or decrease your money out, which is expenses. We cannot increase our salary easily, that is not something we can control besides working harder (also no guarantee =S). The best we can make out of this is to control our expenses.

We need savings in order to invest! In this case, it is Money in > Money out = Savings

This savings is not for shopping or travel or food, but just purely for investing (or emergency funds)! In this case, you have a goal and an idea on how to use those savings. Invest in etf is a good start (see previous post).

I know there are many out there who have to use up their savings and cannot bear to let it idle. They do not know what to do with the huge sum piling out. So they spend all away. But using it to invest is to get more money out of it, instead of just focusing on short term pleasures! I know, I know, long term is too far away, but at least have a goal to invest it. It takes only $100 a month to invest in the etf, unless you cannot afford it, then that's another story altogether.

I have heard of so many saying "Save for what?" So let's spread the word on this: "Save to invest."

Disclaimer: Not asking you to invest on all your savings either!

Pimples and how Niks Maple cured me

I have an outbreak of pimples! Oh my oh my why why why. It could be attributed to my long days in school- from 10am to 9pm, or it could be my daily habits, or that I am still youthful (青春痘)! Read more to find out about the causes of these irritating things.

What are pimples and how do I get rid of them?
(Source: Saluda Programa de Salud at flickr)
Pimples are small skin lesions or inflammations of the skin. They are commonly caused by clogged or infected pores. Pimples usually develop after blackheads or whiteheads have become infected. When breakouts of pimples occur often, it is considered acne. There are many causes of acne, including bacterial folliculitis, keratosis pilatis and other skin conditions. It is highly recommended that if these conditions exist, that they are treated immediately. Often, if not treated, these conditions can lead to severe acne. Most times, when acne is ignored, it can leave visible scars on your skin. Many teenagers experience pimple outbreaks. It is at this time that the skin attempts to adjust to hormonal changes that occur during puberty. However, many adults suffer from acne as well. Women typically develop pimple outbreaks during their menstrual cycle. This happens because hormones surge before or during menstrual cycles causing excess oil to clog pores.

Why Do Pimples Arise?

Our skin consists of millions of tiny pores. These pores are connected to oil glands. Once these oil glands are blocked by dirt or other factors, the oily substance, (called sedum) clogs our pores causing pimple outbreaks. A major contributor to the outbreak of pimples is the elevation of hormones, usually occurring during puberty or menstrual cycles in women. This results in the hormone by-product called DHT. This hormone by-product overstimulates the oil gland resulting in clogging of the pores, which then results in acne production. To address and help treat this problem, there are creams and ointments available over the counter. These ointments can easily be applied topically to the blemish. However, if the condition seems to worsen, it is recommended that you see a dermatologist or skin expert immediately.

Thanks to my friend's introduction and from the results I see on her, I went to try Niks Maple clinic. There was a whole regimen of around 5 to 8 small samples to try which cost around $100. You can actually feel that your skin becomes better after only a week!
I was so happy that I finally found the antidote to my acne issues. Gradually, my face cleared up within a few months and I have not stopped using the main products. Some like cleanser and sun block can be replaced to cheaper brands. The most effective is still the rectinal or stieva A. They are used during night time to reduce the oil produced during the day and did actually helped me to prevent pimples!

I asked around and some of my friends seem to already know this clinic and they are all still using their products since a few years back. Amazing!