tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8573620.post7416989805160623307..comments2023-09-21T18:48:51.070+08:00Comments on SimplyJesMe: Stay at home mumCofteahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05192987265033253288noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8573620.post-74654776839262765702016-07-23T21:42:22.264+08:002016-07-23T21:42:22.264+08:00Hi Rolf,
You are right! Some friends I know dread...Hi Rolf,<br /><br />You are right! Some friends I know dread going to work because they can't bear to leave their baby, I think they will quit soon haha. Ultimately it's dependent on the choice of the mum and of course, the finances.Jeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12519573577327538496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8573620.post-85295906165709884552016-07-23T20:23:09.627+08:002016-07-23T20:23:09.627+08:00Hi Jes,
It is just choice. Does not matter if SAH...Hi Jes,<br /><br />It is just choice. Does not matter if SAHM or FTWM as long as you fulfil your role as mummy or daddy and make sure they grow up healthy, happy, good integrity bla bla blaRolf Sueyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10723925075715114650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8573620.post-18276077244802186772016-07-19T23:50:57.350+08:002016-07-19T23:50:57.350+08:00Hi B,
Woah really salute her and also your financ...Hi B,<br /><br />Woah really salute her and also your financial capability. I am sure the sacrifice is well worth it and do give her some alone time once in a while!<br /><br />I think you mean a confinement nanny. I did not hire one but can help you to get some contacts from my friends. Will send them to you soon!Jeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12519573577327538496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8573620.post-51981835933504233962016-07-19T23:28:28.167+08:002016-07-19T23:28:28.167+08:00Hi Temperament,
That's why many families can&...Hi Temperament,<br /><br />That's why many families can't live without a maid now. I also think I will need help once work gets hectic. Really difficult to juggle so just got to pay for it.<br /><br />Actually I have heard from many that they regretted not having more kids or having kids too late thus unable to have more. I also have some friends my age choosing not to have kids but I am secretly hoping that they will regret it. Ok, very mean of me haha.Jeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12519573577327538496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8573620.post-62070369274692407052016-07-19T23:19:20.767+08:002016-07-19T23:19:20.767+08:00Hi TFS,
I am sure you will be supportive whatever...Hi TFS,<br /><br />I am sure you will be supportive whatever your wife's decision is. You will need to help out more if she is going to be a FTWM. Do remember to prioritise her over the child! :) <br /><br />It's more than a choice, it's compulsory to keep my mental state intact!Jeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12519573577327538496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8573620.post-65438917303195221032016-07-19T23:08:25.444+08:002016-07-19T23:08:25.444+08:00Hi Jared,
Mmmm... Maybe you haven't met the r...Hi Jared,<br /><br />Mmmm... Maybe you haven't met the right woman to make you want to have an offspring with her. The paternal instinct is cultivated not in born!<br /><br />I guess normally mum is the one who is around more and take care of the kids. I have no regrets having a child but it really takes a lot more effort on working mums. Particularly when I have to travel :SJeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12519573577327538496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8573620.post-6315857139892073922016-07-19T23:04:04.480+08:002016-07-19T23:04:04.480+08:00Hi Uncle CW,
Yeah man! Not at all free to have hi...Hi Uncle CW,<br /><br />Yeah man! Not at all free to have hi-tea like tai tai. Maybe with maid then can la.Jeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12519573577327538496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8573620.post-16647013591238804172016-07-19T20:59:06.574+08:002016-07-19T20:59:06.574+08:00Hi Jes
My wife is a SAHM. She doesnt enjoy it too...Hi Jes<br /><br />My wife is a SAHM. She doesnt enjoy it too much as well but i guess we'll have to sacrifice either one of us. We are not yet contented leaving him under a child care or domestic helper care.<br /><br />But good to know how you doing so far.<br /><br />P.s: do you happen to know a recommended nanny for a month after birth?Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09041255778427742477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8573620.post-22683125395221347882016-07-19T12:15:57.735+08:002016-07-19T12:15:57.735+08:00I reckon my wife is going to be a FTWM than a SAHM...I reckon my wife is going to be a FTWM than a SAHM. The reasons you gave seem to apply to her as well. As long as the child is well taken care of, I'm sure you are free to make your own life choices!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8573620.post-53223004382898824502016-07-19T11:19:25.346+08:002016-07-19T11:19:25.346+08:00Jes,
A child is definitely out for me. I have no ...Jes,<br /><br />A child is definitely out for me. I have no paternal instincts.<br /><br />It's not easy for the modern woman - balance career with family.<br /><br /><br />We have to live with the decisions we make.<br /><br />I'm closer to mom than dad; mom was always around.Singapore Man of Leisurehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13774067113884418001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8573620.post-60175505090640955502016-07-19T09:41:42.900+08:002016-07-19T09:41:42.900+08:00sahm is a tough job worth $20K per monthsahm is a tough job worth $20K per monthCreatewealth8888https://www.blogger.com/profile/08563834016250153049noreply@blogger.com